Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Euthanasia

I came across an intriguing piece of news; which revived an anecdote during my youngistan days (cant say childhood days as it was during junior college and terming it as adolescence days gets a bit out of context :p). First, excerpts from the news article, “Germans have come up with a suicide machine which can be used for Mercy-Killing (what beats me even after weighing all the different point of view is that how can a killing be attributed as merciful?). This machine can execute people in seconds and as per the lawyers it’s not illegal as it’s the person himself who will push the button.” Some crazy researchers and their crazier inventions …

So, now getting back to the revived anecdote; during those days, courtesy one of dad's influential friends; we used to get invitation passes or privileged entry to a lot of movie/TV related things like film shooting locales, special movie screenings by producers for distributors/buyers (this one used to be the best; I had seen a few movies even 6-8 months before their official release … I remember one of such was "DIL" … while I had also seen a couple of crappy ones which aren't released even after decade now … remember one from such lot as well .. it was something like "Kaaghaz ki Naav"), television shows etc and quite other TV related stuffs … and such trips were quite exciting back in those days (arnd 10 years back). So, one such time, I got passes to participate in a talk show “Kiron Kher Today” which used to be aired on Star Plus on Saturday's prime time. Not that I had even an iota of IQ to take part in a debate of even any average topic; but who used to care then; we would be seen on TV ... on Star Plus … yeaaaa… So, me along with a couple of school friends got all dressed up in our then best pair of jeans & shirt and reached the shooting location on time.

After we reached the set, there were a few assistants explaining the topic of debate to all participating audience and a few also providing readymade questions :). We were told that the topic was “Euthansia” ... hmmm those days ... couldn't even pronounce this word properly ... forget about understanding the meaning of it. So, somehow the guys out there explained the concept of mercy-killing and told us that the debate was whether to support it or not. (btw they had to explain this to almost 90% of the participating audience :)). The experts’ panel did comprise of 4-5 proficient doctors and Mrs Kher hosted the show with aplomb. I don’t really remember the questions discussed there … and the final consensus; but I remember that I did ask 3 questions of which 2 were aired on the show and 1 got edited (btw getting edited doesn’t mean getting censored)

A few years later I did eventually begin to understand the profound implication of this term (and its different perceptions - suicide, murder, mercy-killing etc); and have been thinking over it a lot of times. Even after not taking into account the strong legal resistance and the radical moral views on this … it’s one of those topics that would always spark an endless debate … For a moment it seems logical; it’s given that the patient’s ailment is incurable … and sufferings unbearable … the eventual human fate is just around the corner … what’s the harm in relieving him of the torment … that too only with his acquiescence (this ones called voluntary euthanasia and there’s something like involuntary euthanasia too for patients who are in no state to take a decision…) But on the flip side … it seems simple considering the above facts from a third persons view … but just for a second put yourself in the victims place. An ailing person can consent anything that would end his intolerable ordeal; or even worse imagine you to be one of patient’s kin and it would hurt like nothing else when faced with such a situation (forget the decision, the mere idea of thinking on these lines will be like subjecting the kins to one of the euthanasia machines)

Its pretty tough to decide whether to support it or not … but I think I would end up on the non-supporters side… as miracles do happen … science has failed at times … whatever the medics envisage … you never know the subject might begin to lead normal life after all … (and with all the Hindi News channels nowadays showing umpteen number of unbelievable miracles … it seems that miracles are happening too many and too often these days) … no one should die before his destined death … but again what makes me so sure that euthanasia is not destined death … what makes me so sure that euthanasia is just not another way of natural death like cancer, accidents, heart attacks … well I don’t know .. maybe intuition … maybe yearning … maybe just beliefs …

That’s about it … I think I will stop this … apologize for this abrupt end … but its getting all too serious now … and someone’s said humor is my forte … so let me not venture into an unknown territory :)

Take care friends,

- hiren

P.S.: The term euthanasia comes from the Greek words "eu” and “thanatos” which combined means “well death” or "dying well".

14 comments:

Neo said...

better not comment.
u knw why

Keshi said...

** no one should die before his destined death … but again what makes me so sure that euthanasia is not destined death …

SPOT ON!

Thats exactly wut I told my mum the last time we spoke abt it.

Also I believe that if someone has lost all their quality of life due to some physical illness, its better to die than to remain in a vegetative state. Atleast thats what I'd want..DEATH.


Keshi.

Hiren said...

@neo -> yea .. at first i too felt like not writing on this ...

@keshi -> but how cud yaa be so sure that the vegatative state would remain forever till eventually death gets you ???? I know all the medical reports and analysis might say that ... but as i said in my post ... science has been mistaken at times ...

Serendipity… said...

Heavy sutff! But well written...
To live in the hearts of those who love us, is never to die!

Vaishalee said...

Very reflective...What i admire d most about this post of urs is that u have very skilfully managed to depict a gruesome subject without veering into d sticky territory of being topical. Also, ur attempt at pouring humour into a morbid scenario is genuinely heart-warming.

The in-conclusive end to the debate is really metaphorical of how d world is divided on this subject.

Hiren said...

@Manallii -> heavy for sure ... well written .. hmmmm not sure ... could have been better ... thansk anyways ! and awesome quote that.

@Vaishalee -> Thanks for so many kind words abt my writing ... not sure if i deserve it though ... and abt adding humour ... I always beleive in looking the lighter side of the things ... and easing out tensed & stressful environments. Thanks !

KP said...

Ethunasia....its debatable subject...:). u have raised valid point...how does one know when his time is up?

I have seen few stories here in the news where family was fighting over to end her life or not!

I would rather end my life than suffer from physical illness...the pain is excruciating and loved one should understand to let it go....:).


good one !!!

Unknown said...

well written.. i hate to comment .. couldn't stop myself this time :)

Hiren said...

@kp -> i wud again say the same thing that I told to Keshi ... you never know there would be hope beyond that excruciating pain ... and let it go ... not possible i think !!! :)

@kunal -> bro, if my article made u to comment and that too praiseworthy comment then its definitely a moment of pride for me :)

Keshi said...

yes I hv read abt such stories and even experienced this in our own family...when a person on a life-support machine comes back to life.


but..

**but how cud yaa be so sure that the vegatative state would remain forever till eventually death gets you

no one knows if/when life will come back..yes I agree with u there. But the emotional cost of the loved-ones involved is the highest price to pay here. It's so hard to watch a loved-one depend on a life-support machine and deal with that every single day. Its a huge amount of stress and psychological trauma to ppl involved. Im speaking with a very recent experience in the family.

Having said that, It's really upto the family to decide that...whether to keep going or not. But if Im ever in that situation, I hv already told my mum to switch off the machine. I dun want my family to go thru that..cos some patients can go on for years on life-support w.o. a single improvement. And that is a huge stress for teh family.

To me, if quality of life is gone, there's no point of being over-positive abt something that may never come back again.


Keshi.

Hiren said...

@keshi -> from the patients point of view, i definitely agree with you ... i would do the same ... i wouldn't want my loved ones to go through that ordeal ...

but from the loved ones perspective i think any amount of psychological trauma wouldn't matter even if there is a slimmer of hope ... on second thoughts even if there is no hope; to let go would be extreme trauma and might also bring in some guilt feeling which would traumatize them for the rest of their life :(

Keshi said...

**to let go would be extreme trauma and might also bring in some guilt feeling which would traumatize them for the rest of their life

yes I agree. Our family went thru the same very recently, with a very close uncle.

Letting go is difficult..but we r being selfish then..cos it's the patient who's suffering just cos we need them to live.

Keshi.

Keshi.

Solitaire said...

I don't know Hiren. We can never decide if mercy killing is good or not. The family may not want to see their loved one die (or they might because he/she may be becoming a burden). But the person may be suffering so much that they might want to be relieved rather than living a vegetative life.

Kunal Pawaskar said...

"no one should die before his destined death"

if u are in bad shape, then is not even taking medicines human intervention? You are extending life beyond "destined death".

In that state can you even call it destined death? and if not, then there remains no reason why a person should not have the prerogative to end his/her life.